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About

Hi, I'm Crystal L. Fedeli. In addition to my private consulting practice, I am an award-winning nonprofit founder and Executive Director, speaker, host of the Crystal Fedeli Podcast, social researcher and policy analyst. Through my individual consulting work, I support women leaving coercive control to navigate the family court system. More specifically, I help survivors make the patterns of coercive control visible to the family law professionals they work with. Through my speaking, training, and organizational consulting work, I help attorneys and other family law professionals recognize for themselves and understand the patterns of coercive control. As the founder and Executive Director of my 501(c)(3) nonprofit, You Made a Way, I support women leaving coercive control that has turned financial to navigate the family court system.

Before beginning my consulting practice and founding my nonprofit, I worked for the State of New Jersey, Office of the Public Defender, in the Drug Court Unit where I managed drug court expungements for the entire state. Prior to that, I worked for the State of New Jersey, Department of Children and Families, the Division of Child Protection and Permanency, in the Litigation Unit. My background also includes work with community-based nonprofit organizations supporting individuals impacted by domestic violence and sexual assault, childhood trauma, substance use disorder, and developmental disabilities, giving me a deep understanding of how complex situations are interpreted within institutional systems and where critical gaps often exist.

I hold dual graduate degrees, one in Social Research Analysis and the other in Child Advocacy and Policy with a Child Public Welfare Concentration. I also hold a Paralegal Certificate and a Graduate Certificate in Data Collection and Management. This combination of research, policy, and legal-adjacent training informs my work and allows me to approach complex situations with both analytical rigor and real-world context.

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Hi, I'm Crystal L. Fedeli.

In addition to my private consulting practice, I am an award-winning nonprofit founder and Executive Director, speaker, host of the Crystal Fedeli Podcast, social researcher and policy analyst.

 

My work focusses on supporting women leaving coercive control to navigate the family court system by helping survivors make the patterns of coercive control visible to family law professionals as well as helping family law professionals identify for themselves and understand the patterns of coercive control.

Many survivors discover that working with an attorney and other family law professionals is important, but patterns of coercive control are often difficult to explain and easy for systems to miss and misunderstand. Many well-intentioned attorneys, judges, and other family court professionals want to help, but may not immediately recognize and understand the patterns. That's the gap I come in and fill.

*Pictured are me, Crystal L. Fedeli, and my children after I was awarded the 2026 Nonprofit of the Year Award by Mayor Aneka Miller, Mayor of Bordentown, New Jersey, at the 2026 Mayoral Ball.

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