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I SEE YOU STRUGGLING TO FIND WHAT WILL ACTUALLY WORK.
I see you hearing from everyone around you one solution to your problem, and one solution only - that you can’t drink alcohol anymore, ever again because you have a problem.
So in desperation to get better you decide to not drink ever again.
You feel good for a few hours, maybe if you’re lucky a few days, but eventually you get those overwhelming cravings and obsessive thoughts for alcohol.
You try so hard to ignore them, to shove them down, to distract yourself.
But they keep coming every couple hours, then every hour until eventually you surrender and reach for a drink.
You enjoy that first drink, maybe even the second or third. You start thinking this may be the time when you’re finally able to drink like a "normal person", something you’ve longed for.
But then it becomes fuzzy and the next thing you know, you find yourself waking up to an instant shock of stress that rushes through your entire body with simultaneous flashbacks of what you did last night when you were drunk out of your mind.
You’re embarrassed. You feel such regret. You’re paranoid of the consequences of what you did when you were drunk out of your mind. You’re terrified for the memories that are to come throughout the day ahead of you.
You have such a headache, you’re so thirsty, but you’re also scared that whatever water you drink will just come right back up.
I see you hopeless because you don’t believe you’ll ever get better. You don't see a way out, a solution.
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I KNOW YOU'VE TRIED SO SO MANY THINGS AND IT'S NOT WORKING.
You've tried support groups like AA and maybe it worked for a few days, or weeks, or if you were lucky a few months, but eventually you drank alcohol again and it was as if nothing had changed. You drank just as much as the night you quit. You ended up right where you were before you went to AA.
You thought, maybe AA is the problem, it's too rough and rigid, too harsh for you. So you tried another support group that was less rigid, something like Celebrate Recovery or S.M.A.R.T. Recovery, but that didn't work either because you eventually drank (way too much) alcohol again.
You've tried therapy. In fact all of the therapists keep insisting that you need to fix your mental health and then your issues with alcohol will get better, but so much time has passed and it's still not better.
You may have even tried talking with your doctor, but they have just tried to counsel you to figure out what your triggers are to get you to begin drinking each time. Or they just tell you to try keeping a drink log. Or maybe they try to convince you to stop drinking because of the negative effects of heavy drinking to your health over time. They just end up referring you back to a therapist and support group.
You feel like you're being sent in a circle.
Forget family and friends. They have no tolerance for your issues with alcohol. They tell you that you don't care about them, your kids, your life, etc. They really don't understand why you can't just stop drinking. Their standing question is that if drinking leads to negative consequences for you, then why do you keep doing it?
But you are just as perplexed as they are.
You are hopeless. You have absolutely no confidence that this will ever get better as long as you live here on this earth, in this lifetime.
I totally get it because I've been here myself. I've also worked with so many women wh come to me after spending so much time and money with support groups, therapists, doctors, and more and not getting anywhere but instead staying stuck, suffering.
HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF . . .
I told you that finding the path of recovery that will actually work for you is totally possible . . . you're just not focussing your efforts in the right place.
So many of these things such as support groups, therapy, seeking support from doctors, self-help books, and #alltheotherthings are designed to work when you already know your goals with alcohol and when you connect with the path of recovery that best aligns with those goals.
So the question is . . . if #allthethings aren't working . . .
"What are the different paths of recovery available to me?"
"How do I discover my goals with alcohol?"
"How do I know my desired goals with alcohol are even possible?"
"What path of recovery aligns best with my goals with alcohol?"
"How do I access all I need to accomplish my goals with alcohol?"
IN, MY PATH: 6 WEEKS TO FIND THE PATH OF RECOVERY THAT ACTUALLY WORKS FOR YOU, I'M GOING TO SHOW YOU HOW.
I'VE BEEN THERE . . . BUT I ALSO KNOW WHAT'S POSSIBLE.
I WENT FROM ALCOHOL WREAKING HAVOC IN MY LIFE . . .
TO FINDING THE PATH OF RECOVERY THAT ACTUALLY WORKED FOR ME AND SO I WAS ABLE TO GAIN TOTAL POWER OVER ALCOHOL.
YOU DON'T FIND THE PATH OF RECOVERY THAT ACTUALLY WORKS FOR YOU BY ACCIDENT OR BY "WINGING IT".
YOU FIND THE PATH OF RECOVERY THAT ACTUALLY WORKS FOR YOU STRATEGICALLY.
MY PATH: 6 WEEKS TO FIND THE PATH OF RECOVERY THAT ACTUALLY WORKS FOR YOU, IS FOR YOU IF:
You struggle with drinking too much alcohol and you want to be able to control how much alcohol you drink or part with alcohol completely and effortlessly!
You want to learn all the paths of recovery available to you (not just moderation or sobriety through nothing but sheer willpower).
You're excited to STOP GOING to support group, after support, after support group that doesn't work anyway.
STOP going to therapy, session, after session, after session that gets you nowhere.
STOP begging your doctor to help you only for them to not.
STOP praying to God for the answer, pleading for God to heal you without ever truly healing.
STOP trying to have an accountability partner because it never truly works anyway, at least long term.
Stop having obsessive thoughts and cravings for alcohol ASAP .
Finally be free to drink on your own terms (think not waking up to hangovers ever again, not having obsessive thoughts or cravings for alcohol all day every day, being able to have a drink or two when you want or not even wanting alcohol in the first place).
Be free to create a life that you are so in love with where you look forward to each and every day!
IF YOU ARE READY TO . . .
Reframe your understanding of alcohol recovery and find the path of recovery that actually works for you.
Learn all the different paths of recovery available to you, discover your goals (without the pressure of a therapist, sponsor, family member, friend, doctor, etc.'s goals for you) with alcohol, pick the path of recovery that best aligns with your goals, connect with all you need to accomplish your goals and learn how to truly forgive and release all those who have caused you harm along your journey of fighting to recover.
Be able to drink like a "normal" person - either enjoy a drink or two and with no hesitation to stop drinking when you're done OR to have no desire for alcohol in the first place without a second thought (I now enjoy a drink or two, or I don't want one at all in the first place, and I don't feel like the only one who can't handle drinking alcohol!)
Trade in the obsessive thoughts and cravings for alcohol that happen all day every day for a life that you absolutely love, one where you look forward to each and every day.
Confidently attend social engagements without having to contemplate whether you should not go or not because alcohol will be there, worrying if alcohol will be there, or feeling like your lacking because you're the only one you can't drink alcohol.
Let go of suffering and embrace an amazing life.
Get the support + do what it takes to find the path of recovery that actually works for you.
THEN I INVITE YOU TO JOIN ME.
In this powerful, highly supportive 1:1 experience, we'll help you reframe your understanding of alcohol recovery and find the path of recovery that actually works for you!
We'll share with you all the paths of recovery available to you, help you discover your goals (not anyone else's goals for you, your goals) with alcohol, pick the path of recovery that best aligns with your goals, connect with all you need to accomplish your goals and teach you how to truly forgive and release all those who have caused you harm along your journey of fighting to recover.
I break everything down into simple, easy-to-follow steps so you'll never feel stressed or overwhelmed and I am there with you throughout every step of the way so you never feel alone along your journey of finding the path of recovery that actually works for you.
HERE'S WHAT WE'LL DO THROUGHOUT THESE 3 MONTHS:
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LEARN WHY NOTHING HAS WORKED FOR YOU YET & ALL THE DIFFERENT PATHS TO TREATMENT AVAILABLE TO YOU
DISCOVER YOUR GOALS (NOT ANYONE ELSE'S GOALS, YOUR GOALS) WITH ALCOHOL
PICK THE TREATMENT PATH THAT BEST ALIGNS WITH YOUR GOALS WITH ALCOHOL
CONNECT WITH WHAT YOU NEED TO FINALLY ACCOMPLISH YOUR GOALS WITH ALCOHOL
LEARN HOW TO POWERFULLY FORGIVE, RELEASE & BLESS ALL THOSE WHO HAVE CAUSED YOU HARM ALONG YOUR JOURNEY OF FIGHTING TO HEAL
CREATE YOUR PLAN TO ENSURE YOU CONTINUE TO ACCOMPLISH YOUR GOALS WITH ALCOHOL & DREAM FOR WHAT AMAZING THING IS NEXT FOR YOU
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HERE'S WHAT WEL'LL DO THROUGHOUT THESE 6 WEEKS:
LEARN ALL THE DIFFERENT PATHS OF RECOVERY AVAILABLE TO YOU
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DISCOVER YOUR GOALS (NOT ANYONE ELSE'S GOALS FOR YOU, YOUR GOALS) WITH ALCOHOL
PICK THE PATH OF RECOVERY THAT BEST ALIGNS WITH YOUR GOALS WITH ALCOHOL
CONNECT WITH ALL YOU NEED TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS WITH ALCOHOL
LEARN HOW TO TRULY FORGIVE & RELEASE ALL THOSE WHO HAVE CAUSED YOU HARM ON YOUR JOURNEY OF FIGHTING TO RECOVER
CREATE YOUR PLAN TO ENSURE YOU CONTINUE TO ACCOMPLISH YOUR GOALS WITH ALCOHOL
PLUS AN AMAZING BONUS
VOICE MESSAGING ACCESS THROUGHOUT THE DURATION OF OUR TIME WORKING TOGETHER TO ANSWER ANY QUICK QUESTIONS YOU MAY HAVE
WHAT IS INCLUDED, CRYSTAL?
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A 6-week results-driven experience working with Crystal.
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Crystal will help you reframe your understanding of alcohol recovery and find the path of recovery that actually works for you.
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1 VIP Day with Crystal.
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1 additional 45-minute private 1:1 call with Crystal, scheduled 2 weeks after your VIP Day, on your way to finding the path of recovery that actually works for you!
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1 private 45-minute wrap-up call with Crystal to wrap up all the work you have done to find the path of recovery that actually works for you!
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Voice Messaging access to Crystal for 6 weeks.
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LIFETIME ACCESS to all the content covering the following topics of reframing your understanding of alcohol recovery and finding the path of recovery that actually works for you:
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Session 1 - Learn All the Different Paths of Recovery Available to You
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Session 2 - Discover Your Goals (Not Anyone Else's Goals For You, Your Goals) With Alcohol
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Session 3 - Pick the Path of Treatment that Best Aligns With Your Goals With Alcohol
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Session 4 - Connect With All You Need to Finally Accomplish Your Goals With Alcohol
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Session 5 - Learn How to Powerfully Forgive, Release & Bless All Those Who Have Caused You Harm Along Your Journey of Fighting To Recover
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Session 6 - Create Your Plan To Ensure You Continue to Accomplish Your Goals With Alcohol & Dream For What Amazing Thing is Next For You
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PLUS THESE RESOURCES.
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An Overview of the Most Current Research, Data and Statistics Regarding Alcohol Recovery, Why Our Current System's Approach Isn't Working & Alternatives Approaches That Actually Do Work Handout
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All The Paths of Recovery Available To You Handout
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Discovering My Goals (Not Anyone Else's Goals For Me, My Goals) With Alcohol Exercise
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My Path of Recovery Plan Template
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List of Providers Who Support Alternative Routes to Recovery Handout
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Scripts to Explain Alternative Routes of Recovery to My Providers
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Truly Forging & Releasing Worksheet
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Personal Affirmations​ Template
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Self Care Plan Template
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Alcohol Consumption Tracker
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My Alcohol Victory Maintenance Plan Template
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IN 6 WEEKS . . .
You'll know and understand all the paths of recovery available to you and why the traditional paths have not worked for you up to this point.
You'll have truly discovered your goals with alcohol, without the overwhelming noise of everyone else's goals for you with alcohol.
You'll have picked the path of recovery that best aligns with your goals with alcohol.
You'll have connected to everything and everyone you need to accomplish your goals with alcohol.
You'll have learned all you need to truly forgive and release all those who have caused you harm on your journey of fighting to recover.
You'll have created your plan to ensure your continued success in maintaining your goals with alcohol.
SINCE WORKING WITH CRYSTAL, I HAVE ACHIEVED SOME INSIGHT, KNOWLEDGE, AND EDUCATION ON THE SEVERITY OF LIVING WITH ALCOHOL ADDICTION AND ITS IMPACTS.
Before I worked with Crystal, I was struggling with being the family member of someone who suffers from a severe alcohol addiction that has greatly impacted our family. Crystal is very knowledgeable about this subject and shared a lot of valuable information, the statistics she shared were the most alarming but also the most valuable to me. Since working with Crystal, I have achieved some insight, knowledge, and education on the severity of living with alcohol addiction and its impacts; I have been able to have meaningful and positive conversations with my family member who is suffering from the alcohol-related issue; and I have been able to educate the rest of my family on the transformation that Crystal had along with being able to instill changes for my family. My family member is equally interested in taking the steps to transform their life for the better and is interested in seeking Crystal's program. Take the steps and do it! Believe in yourself and do not look back.
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Lynn M.
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I'LL LEAVE YOU WITH THIS.
This is sooooo hard for me to say, but it is the truth.
You can either continue down the path of trying to go to different support groups, therapy, seeking support from doctors, self-help books, and still get nowhere . . .
Your life will stay the same.
You'll keep spinning your wheels, stay stuck, frustrated, hopeless, and more. You'll continue to struggle with alcohol and your dream of finally being free will probably just remain a dream.
When we don't find the path of recovery that actually works for us, we are not only doing ourselves a disservice, we're doing all of those around us a disservice as well.
Or you can make a different choice for yourself and all those around you. If you want to find the path of recovery that actually works for you so you can finally be free, if you want to change the direction of your path, you're going to have to do something different.
Make a new choice.
And pursue your new outcome, pursue your dream of being free.
Take my hand, and let's go. I've got you!
ABOUT YOUR HOST: CRYSTAL FEDELI
Hey you! My name is Crystal. I'm on a mission to reframe our understanding of alcohol recovery. More specifically, I help women find the path of recovery that actually works for them so they can finally be free. There is an amazing life God has waiting for them on the other side!
I let them know they're not alone. After suffering for nearly a decade under the sobriety through nothing but sheer willpower approach, I was finally able to find an alternative way, recover in just 3 short months and stay recovered ever since. Now I help other women do the same!
It's my mission to help you learn the different paths of recovery, discover your goals (not anyone else's goals for you, your goals) with alcohol, pick the path of recovery that best aligns with your goals, help connect you with all you need to accomplish your goals and to truly forgive and release all those you have caused you harm along your journey of fighting to recover!
I can't wait to share with you how I reframed my understanding of alcohol recovery and found the path of recovery that actually worked for me, and how I have helped other women do the same.
I am finally free and living the amazing life God had waiting for me on the other side!
If I was able to make this happen, you absolutely can do this too!
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